Discovering Effective Therapies: REBT, CBT, and DBT


Have you ever wondered how different types of therapy work and which one might be the best fit for you or someone you know? In the world of mental health, there are many therapeutic approaches available to help individuals overcome various challenges. Today, we’ll dive into three popular and effective modalities: Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. Together, we’ll explore their unique features, coping strategies, and applications to different mental health diagnoses and situations. By the end of this post, you’ll have a deeper understanding of these therapies and be better equipped to make informed decisions about the best therapy for your needs.


Origins and Principles

Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy was developed in the 1950s by psychologist Albert Ellis. Ellis was dissatisfied with traditional psychoanalytic approaches and sought to create a more direct, action-oriented therapy. REBT is based on the premise that it is not the events themselves that cause emotional distress, but rather our interpretation of those events. This means that by changing the way we think about and interpret situations, we can alter our emotional responses and behaviors. Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy encourages clients to examine their thinking patterns and identify irrational beliefs that may be contributing to emotional distress and unhelpful behavior. Once these beliefs are identified, the therapist works with the client to replace them with more rational, adaptive thoughts.

Coping Skills in Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy

In this section, we will explore two common, but powerful techniques used by Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapists when treating individuals. It is important to note, however, there are a vast number of skills that go into this very comprehensive and structured therapeutic process. 

A. Disputing: Disputing is a technique that helps clients challenge their irrational beliefs by asking a series of questions. These questions encourage clients to consider alternative explanations for their beliefs and examine the evidence supporting them. Some common questions used in disputing include:

By engaging in the disputing process, clients can recognize and replace irrational thoughts with more rational alternatives.

B. Coping Statements: Coping statements are short, positive affirmations that clients can use to remind themselves of rational thoughts and beliefs. These statements can help clients shift their focus away from negative thoughts and reinforce more adaptive ways of thinking. Some examples of coping statements include:

Clients are encouraged to create personalized coping statements and practice them regularly, especially during times of stress or emotional distress. 


Origins and Principles

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, created by Dr. Marsha Linehan in the 1980s, is an approach that combines cognitive and behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices. Originally developed to treat borderline personality disorder, DBT has since been adapted to address a range of mental health issues. DBT emphasizes the importance of balancing acceptance and change, helping clients develop emotional regulation and interpersonal effectiveness.

DBT involves four core components: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. Comprehensive Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) encompasses a multifaceted approach that includes individual therapy, phone coaching, and group skills training to provide clients with robust support. This integrative method allows clients to address their specific needs while simultaneously reinforcing the skills and strategies learned in each component, leading to more effective and lasting outcomes.

Coping Skills in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy

In Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, finding the balance between acceptance and change is necessary to achieving emotional stability and resilience. Below are two examples of the modalities in comprehensive DBT that help individuals achieve harmony. 

A. Mindfulness: Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment non-judgmentally. Clients learn to observe and describe their thoughts, emotions, and sensations, fostering self-awareness and self-compassion. Some common mindfulness exercises include:

Regular practice of mindfulness can help clients develop greater emotional resilience and reduce distress.  By improving present-moment awareness and non-judgmental acceptance, they strengthen their ability to cope with stressors, ultimately leading to a more balanced and peaceful mental state.

B. Distress Tolerance: Distress tolerance focuses on managing intense emotions in healthy ways. Techniques like distraction, self-soothing, and radical acceptance help clients cope with emotional pain without resorting to harmful behaviors. Some examples of distress tolerance skills include:

As clients enhance their distress tolerance skills, they become more adept at managing intense emotions during crises, allowing them to maintain stability in the face of adversity. This increased capability directly contributes to their overall resilience and ability to cope with life’s inevitable challenges.


All three therapeutic approaches—Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy—provide valuable tools and strategies to address various mental health diagnoses and situations. Each modality offers unique benefits, empowering individuals to overcome challenges and improve their emotional well-being. Whether someone is struggling with irrational beliefs, anxiety, depression, or emotional regulation difficulties, these therapies offer evidence-based, effective solutions tailored to their unique needs.

Choosing the right therapy can be a crucial step on the path to mental health and personal growth. At Puglisi Counseling, LLC, our skilled therapists specialize in all three modalities, ensuring that you receive personalized, compassionate care tailored to your specific needs. By working closely with our dedicated professionals, you can embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing, transforming your life for the better. Reach out to us today and take the first step towards a brighter, healthier future.

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